Need another opinion from girl

In my opinion, kindness is the most deadly weapon for guys. guys can stand from tedious flirts but will fall from a girl's intense kindness.
um, i wonder what it will be for girl's case.
i often hear stories that a girl take a kind boy as a friend with whom she feels comfortable to talk, and will someday take a boyfriend who chased her aggressively.
(in my case, if i wanna get a girl, being a kind guy didn't work. being cool and aggressive is more effective. once again, "in my case".)
「in my case」と言うことは僕の箱の中です。＾＾冗談だよー　（＾＾）ｖ

wanderer, traveler, vagabond

is it still possible nowadays to be a wanderer like Kuai Chang Caine? When one become a wanderer, will he have a place to go home? can someone be a wanderer because he is running away from home? i mean, from being binded into a particular society. Another question, is living meant for somebody else's sake or is it all for the self? If it's for our own benefit, then why do people feel sad when they are left by someone they know? the people around somehow have more regrets or sorry for the dying person compared to the dying person himself.
Anyway....i've been thinking awkwardly lately. Somehow i feel glad coz maybe this is my only chance left to be able to think about anything, any useless stuff.

Valentine's day

valentine's day in japan is about girls giving chocolates to boys. so it's just my luck ^^.
yet i didn't really make a harvest. well, valentine has never been so special for me.
Change topic. I usually never give a damn whether i make friends with somebody or not. I don't mind drawing a clear line that i don't go ot think the way a certain people do. but lately i feel that i've been dragging myself to be more forgiving, flexible, acceptant, but it's a kind of unconciously forcing myself. I feel less comfortable than i use to so i conclude that i don't like it. But i wonder what was the main cause that i unconciously forcing myself doing that thing.
once again, i hope you guys are having a great time in St.valentine's day.

suggestion of naming kids (dicuplik)

1. Nama itu mengandung do'a. Nama anak itu cermin harapan orang tua. Nama itu mengandung Do'a. Tetapi do'anya yang singkat saja. Kalau terlalu panjang nanti dikira Tahlil atau Wirid. Kalau dipanggil bukannya nengok, malah bilang "Amiinn.."

2. Nama jangan nyusahin orang Kelurahan. Nama anak mudah dibaca dan mudah ditulis. Meskipun tampaknya bagus, jangan pakai huruf mati yang digandeng-gandeng atau didobel-dobel (mis. Lloyd, Nikky, Thasya dll). Biasanya sama petugas Kelurahan akan terjadi salah tulis dalam pembuatan Akta Kelahiran, Kartu Keluarga, KTP dll. Nah... nggak enaknya lagi kalo kita minta revisi biasanya kena biaya lagi... dan prosesnya lama lagi.

3. Nama jangan cuma satu kata Minimal ada First Name, Nick Name dan Family name gitu loh.... Ini penting terutama kalo pas lagi ngurus Paspor atau Visa. Nggak jadi berangkat ke Amrik hanya gara-gara namanya cuma Prakoso atau Pamuji atau Paryono khan kesiaan...

4. Nama jangan terlalu panjang Nama yang panjang bererot bisa bikin susah si pemilik nama. Disamping susah ngingetnya, juga ngerepotin waktu ngisi formulir pendaftaran masuk Perguruan Tinggi Negeri (dulu MPTN). Itu lho.. yang ngitemin buletan-buletan pakai pensil 2B. Capeek khaan... Nama panjang seperti Siti Hartati Riwayati Mulianingsih Adiningrum Mekar Berseri Sepanjang Hari.... adalah sangat-sangat not-recommended.

5. Nama anak bersifat internasional Anak kita hidup dimasa depan, di era globalisasi dimana hubungan dengan dunia internasional amat sangat intens. Jadi jangan mempersulit anak dengan nama-nama yang sulit di-eja. Nama Saklitinov misalnya orang Jepang nyebutnya Sakuritino, orang Sunda bilang Saktinop orang Amrik bilang Sechlaytinove... Syusah khaaannn Padahal maksudnya Sabtu Kliwon Tiga November...

6. Ketahuilah arti nama anak. Jangan memberikan nama hanya karena enak diucapkan atau bagus ditulisnya. Nama Jalmowono memang sepintas enak diucapkan dan bagus kalo ditulis tetapi ketahuilah bahwa Jalmowono itu artinya Orang Utan.

7. Jangan pakai nama artis. Nama artis memang bagus-bagus, cuma masalahnya kalau artis itu kelakuannya baik... lha kalau jadi bahan gosip melulu khan jadi beban juga buat si anak.

8. Abjad huruf pertama nama anak. Huruf pertama "A" pada nama anak ada enak gak enaknya. Gak enaknya kalau pas ada ujian/test/wawancara sering dipanggil duluan. Gak sempet nanya-nanya ama temannya. Tapi kadang-kadang juga pas giliran dapat pembagian apa gitu, dapetnya juga sering duluan. Sebaiknya ambil huruf pertama itu antara D sampai K. Cukupan lah... Huruf depan Z... wah.. biasanya adanya dibawah...

Gross alert

久しぶりですね。僕ほかのブログを作ったから、時々あそこのブログに書いてる。
I've just eaten "crab's-egg bread". verryyyyyyy tasty. Now the eggs are all covering my teeth and it feels like "early morning", but it tastes great ^^. shck, shck...um.. yummie...
よろしかったら、ぜひ私の他のブログをご覧下さい。
http://blog.goo.ne.jp/tuing2ing　にございます。

Lost target

Another 2 weeks left for school. Did all the exams. What`s left are two essays and two reports which until now i haven`t got the will to start. i can`t write kana in this library` computer. jya, kimemashita, kyou wa ano futatsu no essay wo kaichau.