In my opinion, kindness is the most deadly weapon for guys. guys can stand from tedious flirts but will fall from a girl's intense kindness.
um, i wonder what it will be for girl's case.
i often hear stories that a girl take a kind boy as a friend with whom she feels comfortable to talk, and will someday take a boyfriend who chased her aggressively.
(in my case, if i wanna get a girl, being a kind guy didn't work. being cool and aggressive is more effective. once again, "in my case".)
「in my case」と言うことは僕の箱の中です。＾＾冗談だよー （＾＾）ｖ
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Hmh, interesting. I just told my bro a little while ago that to chase a girl, you have to give her attention and kindness. Does the same thing apply to guys??
But I think in everything you need to be less direct, using a little bit of push-and-pull method ^__^ Mystery always has its charm for girls ;)
Although I think most girls would fall easily for guys who can be sweet and make them *flutter* inside.
ogi mana ada bro?
too bad girls. the undirect boys are mostly admire other guys. つまりgayです。maybe
sayonara.....a bientot.....heauheuahuaehuae.....
Opini aly aja ya.Abis suka dibilangin ga kaya cewe, ntar mikirnya beda lagi. All i need is love, the love than can make me still breath...dan Aly pengen perasaan diinginkan. If you want me, take me ^_^ Ga ada yang pernah rayu-rayu aly, tapi kalo yang baik banyak. Gmn caranya aly tahu kalo itu cuma baik atau baik dengan maksud? Kynya aly ga pinter-pinter.
nah kan bener. told you: we need someone who can need us back.
i'm not against Ogi-chan but from which line does your comment refer to? hehehe....ごまんね、よく分からないから。
Hi, numpang kasih comment aja ya ^^
Personally, a guy just being kind doesn't do it for me. I mean, he can be kind to a hundred other girls for what I'm concerned.. ;p it's the little extra attention girls need to feel special without (like aly said) being suffocated.. maybe being 'initiative' is a better way to put it than 'aggressive'..
But then again it all comes back to the girl, whether or not she would let you sweep her off her feet..
Hallo there! How are you? Nice blog you've got there...
Happened to stumble upon your blog from Ogi's blog....and was perturbed (quite) by your post on women, men, kindness, coolness and aggresiveness.
May be this quote(written by my fav dramatist) shall enlighten you? It's from a totally different angle hahahha.... :D
"Women love men for their defects; if men have enough of them women will forgive them everything, even their gigantic intellects." (Oscar Wilde)
Hahah...I presumed the word "gigantic" above is ironic (he means the opposite), surely Wilde doesn't mean it literally, does he? (Oops....:P) Anyhow - can't be too sure as void of context.
Also take a look at this one....
"ALGERNON
Well, in the first place girls never marry the men they flirt with. Girls don't think it right.
JACK
Oh, that is nonsense!
ALGERNON
It isn't. It is a great truth. It accounts for the extraordinary number of bachelors that one sees all over the place." (Wilde - Act I of The Importance of Being Earnest)
Anyhow - I agree w Wilde. Concept/ theoretical summary to attract potential girlfriend: 1. focus on own defects, 2. don't flirt w the girl if you wanna marry her as she won't think it right.
What do you think, gals?
(By gal/ gals/ girl/ girls here, I mean everybody who CLAIM themselves to be those of the female sex. After all, gender identity is such a complex issue & very much socially constructed, no? :P)
*_*
aMir (bener2 lg gak ada kerjaan di Sg makanya nulis comment panjang lebar & ngalor ngidul)
hello mirs, missed you. well,... never really had a chance to talk or be friends that far anyway, but somehow got connected into something. maybe because of our kampoengese ogi here ^^
i saw the movie "Hitch: the date doctor" a couple weeks ago and it kindda change my perspective. for girls it's all about impression.
kaya joke indo tentang kepribadian.
mobil pribadi, rumah pribadi, so can you make some joke with this impression thing such as
impressed by his car, his wealth, his mansion ^^
but the Hitch told me that you'll never know what can impress a particular girl. not even the doctor ^^
good luck boys and girls
GLU
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